Get 4 in-depth workshops for 4 of life's biggest decisions

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Do I want to be a mom? And if so, when should we start trying?


Where do I want to live?


Are they "the one" & are we ready for marriage?


What are my next career steps?

the Everything Era Survival Kit

4 in-depth workshops for 4 of life's biggest decisions

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Welcome to the Everything Era.

Welcome to The Everything Era

It's this weird, wonderful, and wildly difficult span of years during which you’ll make some of the biggest decisions of your life all at the same time — and in front of an audience, no less.

"what am I doing with my life?"

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Which makes it extra hard to figure out what you actually want.

In fact, researchers have found that 80% of our most defining moments happen before we turn 35.

Who you are, what you want to do with your life, where you’ll call home, who your people are, which person you’ll share your life with, and whether you’ll have kids—there's major pressure (internal, external, and even biological) to decide the major plot points of our lives, all within just a few short years.

This season of life is only made harder by the fact that there’s (still!) this cultural insistence that there’s something wrong with you if your life doesn’t look a certain way by a certain time—a pressure that crescendos for women in this defining decade-ish.

Everyone and their mom (but especially YOUR mom) has an opinion about what you should be doing with your life... 

The average woman makes most of her biggest life decisions between her 25th and 35th birthdays.

did you know?

Create a Life You Love is a guided journey of self-discovery, helping you take the pressure off what you think your life is supposed to look like by now and intentionally, confidently, and authentically build the life you actually want to live — a life that looks and feels like YOU. 

Create a Life You Love!

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'Poignant, relatable, and oh-so-important, this book is a must-read...

Poignant, relatable, and oh-so-important, this book is a must-read for anyone on a journey to better themselves in a practical, applicable, and reasonable way. Stephanie is tuned in to real-life challenges, and her roadmap also accounts for the inevitable pitfalls and roadblocks, proving her understanding of the human experience and how each of our paths are unique.'


'Create a Life You Love is a life-changing journey helping you answer the big question, 'What do I want to do with my life?' 

Whether about moving, career choices, marriage, or motherhood, let this book be your guide to making those big decisions with confidence and joy!' 


'Create a Life You Love is a welcome invitation to build life on your own terms.

Wilson walks you through thoughtful insights to take agency in your own life.'

- Eve Rodsky, author, Fair Play

'In Create a Life You Love, Stephanie May Wilson reminds us that it's important to be good stewards of the things we are given and that it's possible to love the lives we build along the way. This book was so encouraging to me that even in hard, crazy, or unclear seasons I can live in faith and joy, creating a life I'm proud of.'

— Madison Prewett Troutt, speaker; TV personality; bestselling author, The Love Everybody Wants

“This book was so encouraging to me!”

Stephanie writes like she is your new best friend, and honestly, reading this book, you will feel like she is. She makes women feel seen, meets them where they are, and then delivers practical tools to help them find freedom from societal pressures and comparison to create a life they love. I love this book, and I hope every single woman (pun intended) picks it up.'


'I love this book, and I hope every single woman picks it up!

'Stephanie leads with honesty, transparency, and authenticity. This book is a beacon of guidance for those who are tired of trying to figure out life all on their own. Full of encouragement and like talking to a good friend, Stephanie will guide you with wisdom and grace in Create a Life You Love.'

- Robin Long, founder/CEO, Lindywell; author, Well to the Core

'Her ability to understand the impact and navigate the weight of life's big decisions is unmatched. 

Create a Life You Love is for the woman who...

Create a Life You Love is for the woman who...

Isn't where she thought she'd be by this point in her life.

Is making a massive decision — she's swimming in pro & con lists, but she still has no idea what to do.

Knows exactly what she wants, she just can't seem to actually get it.

Has no clue what she wants — but knows she doesn't want what she's supposed to want, and feels consumed by so the conflict raging inside her.





sound familiar?

Is juggling several dreams — feeling like she's playing Tetris with her hopes, dreams, body, finances, and most important relationships — and she's wondering how (and if!) it'll all fit together!


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'If you want to create a life you'll love, and create a life with love in it — then join Stephanie May Wilson as she takes on 'The Woman Question' and more. You'll be glad you did.'

- Meg Jay, PhD, author, The Twentysomething Treatment and The Defining Decade

'This is a must-read!

'Stephanie has long been one of my favorite writers. She just has a way of making you feel like you're chatting with your BFF at a long overdue girls' night. And in this book, she serves as equal parts best friend who gets it and mentor who's been there. She gently guides you as you learn to silence all the voices that may be overwhelming you through some of the most important decisions of your one precious life. This is a must-read!' 

- Jordan Lee Dooley, two-time national bestselling author; host, SHE podcast

'If you're at a crossroads... pick up this book!

Stephanie leads the way with wisdom and experience, and this book is her showing you the heart she's wearing on her sleeve. Not only is she bound to become one of your favorite humans, but Stephanie is also the perfect guide to stand alongside you as you boldly build a life of beauty and intention. If you're at a crossroads where you're wanting something more or you're simply tired of living for the approval of other people--brew a cup of coffee and pick up this book!' 

- Hannah Brencher, author, Fighting Forward, Come Matter Here, and The Unplugged Hours


Do I want to be a mom? And if so, when should we start trying?


Where do I want to live?


Are they "the one" & are we ready for marriage?


What are my next career steps?

The Everything Era Survival Kit

free when you pre-order a copy of my book!

We make so many life-changing, trajectory-shaping decisions in our Everything Era — specifically when it comes to marriage, motherhood, home, and career. There's so much I wasn't able to fit into Create A Life You Love — specifics about these four areas — that I knew we had to go deeper. In the next year I'll be creating a course about each one of these topics — but when you pre-order CALYL, you'll have a chance to take them early... and take them for FREE!

We spend 1/3 of our lives at work — it should be something we enjoy, something we're proud of, something we care about, and something that actually pays the bills... right?

In this workshop, I'll help you cast a vision for your career overall, as well as identify (and TAKE!) the next right step to help you get there!

(Note: This workshop will help you whether you want to work for yourself, work for someone else, work full-time, part-time, or anywhere in between!)

Moving is hard, and lonely, and expensive, and a massive decision. But it’s also a fantastic way to begin a brand new chapter in your life. In this workshop we’ll talk through the biggest questions you’re facing when it comes to where to live — and I’ll help you find a direction and next steps that fit the vision you have for this next season and the future.

I’ve moved 7 times during my Everything Era. I’ve lived on two totally different sides of the country, in three different time zones, and in three different states. I’ve rented 4 homes, bought 3, and now we’re gearing up to move our family to another country. I can't wait to share with you what I've learned!

4 Bonus Workshops

What are my career next steps?

Where do I want to live?

Work + Career


I had about a thousand million questions as we were thinking about having kids. I always thought I'd want to have kids, but now that the time had come, I wasn't totally sure.  In this workshop, I'll be sharing with you the answers I've found to all of the questions I was asking as I was making the decision about if and when we wanted to try to have kids.

Do I want to be a mom? And if so, when should we start trying?


Marriage is the biggest, most life-shaping decision most of us will ever make. Who you choose as your life partner impacts almost everything about the life you end up living. Also — what's the right timing for getting engaged and getting married? Is there a "right" timeline?

Because this is such a life-altering decision, it's one I had SO much anxiety about. So this workshop is everything I wish I knew when I was choosing a life-partner. If you're dating someone you think might be the one, this workshop is for you. 

Are they "the one" & are we ready for marriage?



How is having a baby going to impact my life? (My body, my career, my marriage, my friendships, etc.) This is such a huge decision, how do you figure out the timing? (And how do you get on the same page with your spouse?) How do you know if you're ready to be a mom? How do you prepare? What things should you do or have in place before you start trying? How much does it cost to have a baby? How do you get financially ready to be a parent? And more!

(a $400 value!)

I've learned SO much through making these decisions in my own life — I can't wait to walk through this together!

Nothing's off the table!

These workshops will be practical like a course, but they'll feel more like a girls night hangout, or a mentorship session over coffee. We're going to have real talk about the hopes, dreams, fears, and worries that come along with these big decisions. 

I'll be sharing what these decisions looked like for me, how I made them, what I worried about, how I got through it, and what I wish I could go back and tell myself. These are the workshops I SO needed when I was in the thick of it. I'm so honored to get to share these with you!

Every single person who pre-orders a copy of Create A Life You Love will be entered to win a spot as a guest on the Girls Night Podcast!

(Public speaking not your thing? No worries! If you win, you can give your spot to someone else whose story you'd like to help amplify!)  

Win the chance to be a guest on the Girls Night Podcast!

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    Have friends who are in the thick of it with these decisions?

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    (And a chance to be a guest on the girls night podcast!)

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    And preview my next 4 online courses for FREE.

    Pre-order a copy of Create a Life You Love through the link below, I'll send you the first chapter right away + you'll get access to my Everything Era Survival Kit: 4 in-depth workshops for 4 of life's biggest decisions! (A $400 value for free!)

    These are the next 4 courses that I'll be releasing in the next year — and you'll get access to them before anyone else (and you'll get it for free!)

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    When you pre-order you’ll also quite literally be making MY dreams come true in the process. 🙏 A book's success is determined in part by pre-orders, so thank you SO much for your help!

    'Create a Life You Love delivers clarity, purpose, and the much-needed reminder that we are never alone.

    Stephanie's words are a balm to overwhelmed women everywhere--each trying her hardest to live her life well. Throughout this beautiful book, Stephanie comes alongside you with the friendly tone of a dear friend and the wise teachings of a trusted mentor. 

    - Emily Ley, bestselling author, Grace, Not Perfection

    'Stephanie makes creating a life you love feel not just attainable, but enjoyable, freeing, and empowering. 

    Reading this book feels like talking to a big sister--not one who pretends to have it all figured out, but one who's willing to do life alongside you while reminding you that you're not alone during seasons of wondering and uncertainty. When you pick this book up, you'll learn how to lay some heavy burdens down.'

    - Danielle Coke Balfour, illustrator and author of A Heart on Fire

    'Stephanie helps you find your path, make meaningful choices, and enjoy the journey.

    'Create a Life You Love is your personal guide to crafting a life filled with purpose and joy. Stephanie is your guide to help you find your path, make meaningful choices, and enjoy the journey. I love this book!'

    - Alli Worthington, entrepreneur; author, Remaining You While Raising Them