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Magazine quiz meets intake form at your therapist's office

Are you ready to be a parent?

Take this therapist-backed assessment by yourself or with your partner and finally get what you're searching for: clear confirmation that you're ready OR a personalized roadmap to help you get there.

Let's be honest...

You've been daydreaming (and occasionally night-sweating) about parenthood. Whether you're married, Pinterest-boarding nursery ideas, actively trying, or already growing a tiny human — the question keeping you up at night is:

Am I ready to be a mom?

You don't need another person saying, "You'll figure it out!" or telling you horror stories that leave you wondering, "Will I EVER sleep again?"

You need either confirmation you've got this or a roadmap to get you ready.

Either way, we've got you covered. 🙋‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️

But what if you could trade that anxiety for a plan?

You're not alone:
uncertainty is practically a prerequisite for parenthood. 

You've got this,
and we've got you!

Are you ready to be a mom?

Forget those silly magazine quizzes that basically ask if you can keep a plant alive. (That's not a good predictor of motherhood success — thankfully. 😅)

Our Motherhood Readiness Assessment offers a thoughtful framework to evaluate your preparedness across all dimensions that actually matter for parenthood.

Not only will we help you discover your Personal Parent Readiness Score, we'll also give a customized plan for what to do next.

A personalized Parent readiness score? Yes please!

and what does 'ready' even mean??

We examine six essential foundations of motherhood readiness:

Emotional preparedness 

Because parenting is an emotional marathon.

Relationship foundations

Because having a baby is absolutely going to impact your marriage.

Financial stability

Practical planning for your family's future.

Physical and mental wellness

You can't pour from an empty cup (or pass on emotional health you don't have! 🫣).

Lifestyle adaptability

Preparing your hobbies, your schedule, and your friendships for the beautiful chaos ahead.

Parenting strengths and skills

Recognizing and developing your natural abilities. (Yes!! You DO have parenting strengths and skills!)

In just 30 thoughtful questions, we'll show you...


Specific areas for growth to address before bringing home a baby

A personalized preparation plan tailored to your unique circumstances

The confidence to make this life-changing decision with clarity

The natural strengths you already have that will make you a wonderful mother



In less time than it takes to fall down a "birth stories" rabbit hole on social media—you'll know where you stand and what to do next.

Meet the women behind the quiz:

Hi! We're Stephanie and Kelsey —

Or better known as Stephanie May Wilson — a TEDx speaker, 9x author, top podcaster, and leading expert on the decisions and transitions we go through as women.

And Kelsey Bennett, M.S., LPCC — a licensed therapist who specializes in helping women become the parents (and the people!) they want to be. 

We're also best friends of 15 years and have spent the last eight walking through the early years of motherhood — together. 

We're so honored to share with you what we've learned along the way — both in our own journeys to becoming moms (we have four kiddos between the two of us!)

— but also as we've coached and counseled thousands of women through decisions, transitions, and into motherhood in their own lives.

The transition into motherhood is way too much to navigate by yourself.

(That's why we made you a map!)

Less anxiety, more clarity

Discover your Personalized Readiness Score

Your journey to motherhood deserves better than a coin toss or a well-meaning but clueless "you've got this!" This assessment isn't about perfect preparation—it's about honest preparation, so you can step into motherhood with your best foot forward, your eyes wide open, and your support system on speed dial.

download the assessment

Perfect to take by yourself or with your partner!