Make the most of your single life
Turn a season of waiting into a season of passion, purpose, and preparation
"Since taking the course I've become more of the woman I always dreamed of becoming. Even my family has noticed!"
"I believe this course will be one of the biggest things I did in my single life to set me up for a wonderful married life."
"This course completely transformed the way I view not only my single life, but my life as a whole."
"In the past month, I've been on more dates and had more men pursuing me than at any other point in my life. And not just any guys — really great Christian men. I've thought a lot about why these guys have come out of the woodwork, and honestly, I've come to believe that it's because this course reminded me of my worth and identity in Christ.
I no longer need their approval because I have the approval of the One who matters. As a result, I've come alive in my conversations with men. I've been confident, friendly, joyful, and authentically myself. That's what this course did for me."
"If I had to describe the Love Your Single Life course in one word, that word would be ’transformative.' I went to a small, private Christian college that was drowning in Ring by Spring culture - everybody was desperate to get engaged by the spring of their senior year. It was overwhelming and it wasn’t always healthy. I started this course in the midst of my senior year, and it changed everything for me. Within the first five videos, something clicked - I became so much more confident in myself. And as I continued through the course, that confidence only grew. I finally let go of the fear that I'd be single forever, I went to therapy, invested in my friendships, moved abroad, and got my masters degree!"
"I took the LYSL course last year, a few months before I met my fiancé, and it changed my life. It changed how I viewed my past relationships and helped me heal from them, it brought me to a place of surrender with Jesus, and it helped me be present with the people around me and really take in the moments I was currently living instead of living in the future. I became a much healthier person because of it.
God used you to get me ready for my life as an individual, and as a wife. My relationship with my fiancé would not be what it is now without this course. Thank you!”
"I was hesitant about signing up for the course. So many people are single and seem to be totally fine with it! I felt embarrassed for wanting help. I was afraid it would make me feel pathetic. But honestly? It made me feel the opposite. This course has been amazing — so encouraging and empowering. My friends have even noticed a change in me. One said that I seem to be radiating confidence. I love that!"
“Before the course, I was wishing my single life away. I felt I couldn't move, couldn't pursue my dreams, couldn't grow for fear of missing the guy I might spend the rest of my life with. And now? Now I have the freedom to dream big, to go see the Northern Lights by myself (or with friends!), to do the things now that have always been on my heart to do, but I felt I had to put on hold until Mr. Right decided to show up. I feel like Stephanie gave me permission to finally live the life I've been dreaming about living."
"I took the LYSL course in February 2018. I was blown away by how intimate it was! In each video it was as though Steph was speaking back to me things that had always been questions, fears and wonderings within my heart, but which I'd never given myself permission to really consider. I have not only grown closer to God by taking this course, I've grown closer to myself. This course began a journey that I am so thrilled and thankful to be on!"
"I took LYSL in September of 2018, about a month before my younger sister got married. Not only did it prepare me to celebrate with her and her husband without overwhelming sadness about my singleness, but it absolutely changed my life and I’m still talking about you and your resources (hello Girl’s Night!) to this day. I’m still single, but I’m able to enjoy my life as it is now, and look forward to the future without worrying about why I haven’t found my person yet. Since I took the course, I started grad school (I’ll be graduating in May) and took an AMAZING trip to Italy. In some ways, LYSL prepared me to withstand all the ups and downs of 2020 too. Thank you for all you’ve done for me and countless other women!"
"When I signed up, I didn’t want anyone to know because it felt like a weak move to ‘need’ a course for this. But I’m telling you what — now I want to shout it from the rooftops. I know it might feel pricey to some people, but man, I can promise, it’s so worth it.
Just about a year later, I am newly dating the most amazing guy … but I don’t for a second wish he had come into my life any sooner. Last year was the best year of my life as far as finding purpose and living fully and I credit so much of that to you. I mean it! Thank you."
“I participated in Feb 2019 and it was the BEST thing I’ve done for my dating life. Also great for other aspects of single life from relational to finance to wellness... the list goes on! I’ve never known a married woman who gets it like Steph! You will love this course!”
"Stumbling upon the LYSL course shortly after ending a six year relationship, I couldn’t close my computer fast enough. I didn’t want to love my single life, I wanted God to bring me the man I was praying for. About a year later, still feeling like a fish out of water with the whole singleness thing, I decided I had nothing left to lose and ended up signing up. And wow am I glad I did.
LYSL is refreshing, down to earth, and hits on REAL worries, fears, and confusion about being single while pointing to the beauty to be found in it. I left the course not just loving my single life but loving my whole life in general. It empowered me to stand on my own two feet while becoming the woman God created me to be. Take it from a former skeptic: buy the course. It won’t jinx you and it’s worth every penny!"
here's what you'll learn in this four week course...
✔️ Why you're still single (Spoiler alert: It's NOT because you've messed everything up, or because you're unlovable. I'll prove it to you!)
✔️ What God says about marriage (this will change the way you pray about it!)
✔️ How to embrace your desire for marriage without making it an idol
✔️ How to stop being afraid of being single forever
✔️ What it looks like to wait well and trust God with this season
✔️ The question that when you answer it and live according to the answer will lead to a single life you LOVE
✔️ How to start enjoying your single life instead of just enduring it
✔️ How to infuse your life with more joy and contentment while quieting pesky comparison
✔️ How to design a life you love (and how that might just be how you meet a really great guy!)
✔️ How to use this season to form the community you've always wanted
✔️ How to grow closer to God in this season
✔️ How to use this season to become the woman you've always wanted to be
✔️ How to start believing you are who God says you are
✔️ How to create a plan that will help you grow in the ways you've always wanted to grow
✔️ Why investing in yourself is actually the best way to set yourself up for a great relationship in the future
✔️ A powerful tool for building confidence (Which also happens to be your dating secret-sauce!)
✔️ How to know if you're ready to be in a relationship
✔️ What part of finding a husband is up to God (how much you should be waiting on God), and what part is up to you (how much you should be taking initiative)
✔️ How to be proactive in dating while still being pursued
✔️ What you should be looking for in a guy (and what you should avoid!)
✔️ How to keep yourself from settling for the wrong guy
✔️ How to find good, quality men to date (Even if it feels like you've run out of options!)
✔️ How you go from finding those good, quality guys to actually going on a date with them
✔️ How to keep yourself out of the friend zone
✔️ How to flirt in a way that's totally not awkward or embarrassing
✔️ The decision I made (that you can make too!) that will help you live a life you love, become the woman you've always wanted to be, make you more likely to meet a really great guy, and help you be in a great place to be in a great relationship when you do
I wanted to share with you how LYSL impacted my life. It started when my sister told me she had taken the course. She said it was the highlight of her year because it helped her live more fully, step out of her comfort zone, and try online dating. She ended up meeting a great guy, and now they are getting married in March!
I was so inspired by my little sister's example that I decided to sign up for the March 2019 LYSL class and I have to say it totally changed my perspective, made me a better person, and helped me be open to people I wouldn't have normally sought out.
I met an amazing guy that September and he proposed in March. We were married this past September and now we have a baby due in June. I credit all these blessings to God and your course. Thank you so much!"
"LYSL was the best investment in myself I made in 2020. Before the course, I said I was content with being single, but deep down I was still incredibly insecure about it. Steph's course allowed me to explore the value of singleness, and today I can tell you that I am truly happy and content with being single! Steph helped me dream, and plan for my future. Since the course, I have reached more of my goals that I set aside for "someday": adopting a dog, spending more time outdoors, learning to cook well, and investing in my friendships.
At the same time, I also feel ready to date as a result of the course. Growing up in church, I did not learn much about dating and relationships besides the usual "date with the intention to marry" advice. As a result, I have always been anxious about dating because I did not know what to do, or how to do it well! Steph's course taught me how to flirt, how to talk to guys, and how to show a guy that I am interested in him. LYSL taught me directly and explicitly how to date, and for that I am so grateful. My confidence in the relationship side of my life is higher than ever, and I feel both content in my current season, and eager to see what the future holds."
"LYSL helped me take a serious look at some of the issues in my heart that God wanted to work on, especially a deep issue with insecurity that caused me to be unfaithful in a previous relationship.
Because of your course, I went to therapy, stopped binge drinking, and began to LOVE the woman God made me— not because of a man, alcohol, or anything else other than the love God has for me!
I didn’t think an online course could have this much power to affect change, but it truly did!
In the spring of 2020 I began dating the love of my life, and we are getting married this summer! The work I put into learning about myself BEFORE even meeting him has helped us BOTH in our dating and engagement!
Thank you for helping bring God’s real daughter out of the shell of my past self. I am so grateful for LYSL!"
"I signed up for the LYSL course out of desperation. I saw all of my friends pairing off, getting married, and starting families and I felt left out. I was in a career that I loved, had a great group of friends, and had just accomplished my big dream of becoming a licensed foster parent. Even so, I was 30 years old and I felt like I was doing life wrong because I was not married and I was not even pursuing dating.
As I worked my way through LYSL, I realized I didn't actually have the desire to get married at all. I was just comparing my life to others and felt like I wasn't doing what was expected of me. Right then, I dropped those expectations and decided to let God lead me on the path he had for me.
Before the course even ended, I received a call to welcome two precious foster daughters into my home. Ladies in the LYSL Facebook group even bought me gifts for them online and shipped them to my house!
So yes, a year later, I am still single. That hasn't changed. What has changed is that I am truly LOVING my single life; living it out as God is calling me to. It took the LYSL course for me to realize just how amazing being single can be."
"The LYSL course was simply an answer to my prayers. I grew up in church, but still had so many unanswered questions when it came to dating, sex, marriage, courting, and so many other similar topics.
The content in the LYSL met me right where I was in the most gracious and humbling way. I felt seen, heard, and understood. I felt like Stephanie was my big cousin that sat me down at her house and patiently answered all my questions. But, she didn’t stop there. She went even further to equip me to fully live out and enjoy my singleness—a unique season that I struggled to see the value of for SO LONG. The course not only helped me hope for the future, but also helped me to see the beauty along the journey.
After experiencing this course, I feel more confident in my own skin. It’s as simple as that. I feel more equipped to approach the dating scene, and one day, marriage. I’ve been reminded of the value that lies in the single woman I am now, and the married woman I will be one day. I’ve been reminded that the grass will grow wherever you choose to water it."
"In July 2018 I went through the worst breakup of my life. I thought perhaps I was going to marry him and out of nowhere he said goodbye.
A few months later I found LYSL. I took the course and it has changed my life. I starting living MY life the way God intended. I was finally happy and fully myself, and doing things I would never have thought of doing as a single person.
Well, during that time I had also started attending a singles lifegroup from my church. One of the leaders asked me out, and because of LYSL I said yes, which I would never have before. Well he turned out to be the best guy ever. We got engaged in fall 2019, Married November 7, 2020, and are expecting our first baby in September 2021.
I can honestly say without LYSL I would never stepped out of my comfort zone and truly embraced my life as God intended for me to live. Thank you again. I'm so happy you are helping women love their lives!"
"A few years ago, I was teetering on the decision of whether or not to move overseas and become a missionary in Asia. I knew deeply that it was something God was calling me to do, but I had many (well meaning!) friends who told me if I went, I would be giving up my "marriage years". I was heartbroken. I felt like I was being asked to choose between marriage, something I had always desired, and God's calling.
That's when I took the LYSL course and realized that choosing to become a missionary did not mean giving up on marriage forever! So instead of waiting around, hoping the right guy would come, I lived my single life to the fullest! I ticked off many things on my "single bucket list", I traveled all around the world and made amazing friends.
When God called me back to North America, He also brought a new guy into my life. I used so much of the dating advice I learned from the LYSL course during our relationship, and we just got engaged! The best part? One of the main reasons he first noticed me was because I had been a missionary! I am so glad I took this course!"
"I took LYSL back in 2019 and it really gave me peace and insight. I had been single for about three years and my last relationship was extremely toxic. So I definitely wasn't trying to be in a relationship. But your course really helped open my heart and heal it.
Every lesson I truly felt like you were reading my mind and getting me to finally confront the feelings that I had pushed so far down. Shortly after, I met my now boyfriend, KC! And it is truly the healthiest relationship I have ever had. We've been together 6 months now and he's truly my best friend.
I really have to thank you so much Stephanie! I needed your course. I needed the healing and a community of women who really understood what I was going through. Everything happens for a reason. And I really believe that if I hadn't taken your course, I would not have been ready for this relationship that I'm in now."
"One of the best things about this course was the friends I made. Someone from the Facebook group decided to do a Zoom call for anyone who wanted to talk about what we were learning. I wasn’t really sure what to expect but about a dozen girls joined and we decided to meet weekly throughout the course. By the second week, I felt like I had made some best friends from all over the country!
It’s been so encouraging to share prayer requests, lift each other up and provide encouragement through this season of singleness. This group of girls has been one of the biggest blessings to me that came out of taking this course. There were a few of us who only lived a few hours away, and we planned a girls trip and went to Yosemite for a weekend (something that has been on my bucket list). It was amazing to meet them in person and to know it was all because I took a step of faith and signed up for this course.
Thank you again for all of the work you put into this course! I’ve already been telling my friends about it and want to recommend it to all of my single girlfriends."
"Doing the Love Your Single Life course was one of the greatest God-led decisions of my life. I had no idea at the time what God wanted me to find by doing the course, especially from all the way over in Scotland, but I hoped for a contentment and enthusiasm for the stage of life I was in. Little did I know, God would give me all of that and so much more as he had planned all along that this course would be how I would meet my best friend in the whole world.
Abbie and I got chatting at the very start of the course from opposite sides of the world and very soon we were spending time going through the course and discussing all things single life together. LYSL gave us so many opportunities to be open, honest and vulnerable with each other that we wouldn’t have otherwise had; sharing our stories, crying and laughing together and praying for each other.
Since then, we’ve had adventures in Scotland together and talk almost every day. She is the friend I’ve prayed to God for my whole life. This friendship was so God given. The circumstances that lead to us meeting are something only God could have orchestrated and it was all through LYSL. I can’t imagine life without my bestie!"
"I took your course back in February 2018 when I was 31 years old. I had dated so many men over the years and they never were quite right. So many of my friends were married and starting their families, and I just felt so behind.
After my last relationship ended in September 2017, I decided to take some time to really get to know myself. During this “me”time, I bought a house, re-established my relationship with the Lord, reconnected with girlfriends, focused on myself instead of men...and took your course! In our LYSL class, I noticed that there was a girl I work with who also had signed up for your course, and we have become such close friends since then!
Shortly after finishing the course, I decided that I was ready to put myself out there again since I had spent the past 7 months on myself. I met a man a few weeks after signing up for online dating again. Since then, we married in March 2020, are building a home together, and are expecting our first baby in April 2021! 🥰 I truly believe that your course helped me re-learn myself, re-focus on my relationship with God, and it all led me to the man of my dreams."
"In March of 2019, after a very painful breakup, I was praying to God for direction and your course LYSL literally popped up out of nowhere.
At first I was upset thinking 'Okay God, what are you trying to tell me here... that I’m going to be alone forever?' But, I was just praying for direction so... with my feelings of a sad heart, I started the course.
To my surprise the course lifted some of the heavy sadness I was feeling as I began to see that life could still be really beautiful. Shortly thereafter I got an offer to live and work in Europe for a year and I decided to go.
I traveled to 12 countries and had a wonderful time as God started to heal my heart further. I still haven’t found my man yet but I do feel I am in a much better place of meeting him now if that’s what’s in store for me. And if not, I found I can still be happy and have a happy life.
Best of all, I know God is aware of me because He sent me you, just in the right moment."
"I participated in LYSL this past Spring 2020 and at the time I was finishing up my senior year at a small Christian college and trying not to dwell on the fact that most of my friends were either engaged, soon to be engaged, or already married. I had some single friends, but they were few and far between and everyone seemed to be at a different place when it came to singleness. I tried and tried to suppress my desire to be married but it just kept coming up again in my conversations with God and I decided I wanted to do something about it.
I registered for LYSL and I'm so glad I did! It was one of the best decisions I have ever made and a huge step of bravery for myself. The teachings of the course came at a perfect time because shortly after that I was sent home to finish my senior year in my childhood bedroom (yawn!) and suddenly I was very alone. I took a step of faith and tried something I had never done before—online dating!! At the beginning of June I met the man I am currently dating and he is the most amazing person!.
LYSL helped me become the strong, healthy, confident woman that I am (which is what ultimately attracted my boyfriend and drove me to take the brave step to meet him online!) It has changed my life and I am so grateful!!"
"I can honestly say that my being apart of LYSL was God ordained. At the time, I was still nursing a wounded heart from a relationship and I was so unhappy being single. I landed my dream job but what about my dream husband and family? More importantly I felt so much shame and resentment towards my single status. During a time of prayer and fasting I stumbled onto the course. I jumped at the chance. I thought 'what do I have to lose?'
From goal-setting, to asking the tough questions, to learning to enjoy this season, this course just gave me such a powerful perspective on just how beautiful, wonderful, and amazing my single season can be and why I don’t have to feel ashamed or resentful of my single status. Since taking the course, I have spent more time with my nieces and nephews, I began recording my own music as a Christian artist and I put out two albums. I moved out of parents house and live on my own. I’ve traveled and enjoyed life. But most of all I’ve continued to grow in my walk with Jesus and become more like him each and every day and let my light shine.
I still go back to the lesson and my notes just to remind myself how far I’ve come. I’m single at the moment but it’s ok because I’m not on anyones time table and I trust that Gods plans for me are perfect!"
"I am an alum of the Spring 2020 LYSL class! I have not found a man like some have, but after taking this course, I have had the most confidence I’ve ever had and have been making the most out of my single life!
Part of me thinks that God is actually calling me to the life of singleness like He did the apostle Paul. I’m most happy alone, I strive to be competent, independent, and self-sustaining. I love that in my singleness I am able to focus more time on myself and who I am to the Lord.
So while, I may not have met the man of my dreams, I am becoming the woman in them. And some of that credit definitely goes to you. 💞
Thank you for all the hope you bring to women everywhere."
" I started LYSL right after I found out my boyfriend at the time was being unfaithful. It helped me process through so much and focus on my relationship with God.
I regret to say that I stopped part way through the course because he and I decided to try to work things out. But after a lot of prayer, I finally came to my senses and realized that I deserve more. The best thing was that I was able to come back to your course, restart it and finish it this time. I don't have the story that right after I finished the course I met my future husband but I DO have the story that after I finished the course I found myself.
I realized that I lost so much of myself in that relationship — including my dependence on the Lord. LYSL helped me process through one of the hardest months of my life and to start a period of meaningful singleness.
I have spent the past 9 months digging into the word, volunteering at church, going on solo adventures, and building deeper friendships. And one of my favorite parts is that I just recently got back into the dating game and I can go into this crazy dating world with more confidence, more self-worth, and a solid foundation with Jesus as my rock. So grateful for you and your team!"
"I had always been a repeat dater, meaning I dated the same guy over and over because it was comfortable. After getting my heart demolished in 2017 I found LYSL in Feb 2018 and used your course to really dial into not only what I was looking for in a husband but also myself. I had many chats with God on what my future would look like. I broke down a lot of walls through your course and made life long friends (one of those friends went on to sing at my wedding!!)
April of 2018 I was on the dating website Coffee Meets Bagel (suggested from your course) and I meet Landon who was living in Colorado at the time but moving to Texas in July. We took that opportunity to really get to know each other.
I knew by the time that July rolled around this man was something special. All that time spent getting to know each other helped to strengthen our foundation and in November he proposed. We were married in March of 2020 and we have the most love filled, God centered relationship. I owe it all to God and your course."
"In spring of 2020, just as we were all starting the COVID quarantine, I decided to take a leap I'd been debating for a couple years, and take the LYSL course. I'll be completely honest — I'm in grad school and working full-time, and therefore still working through the course, but that's part of the beauty of the way in which it's set up! You can take it as quickly (or as slowly) as you'd like! And to tell you the truth, even though I still have some coursework to complete, LYSL has already changed my life.
I started to really thrive in my singleness (yes, even in quarantine), starting grad school, and saying yes to a new job. This course also gave me a community of women to lean on when I felt lonely and even when I started having feelings for a guy who I knew wasn't part of God's plan for me.
And then, while on a short break from school, I decided to give online dating another go. I've now been dating an amazing guy for nearly six months. We're taking things slow but I truly believe this one has the potential to go the distance. If you're reading this and you find yourself like me, debating whether or not to take this course for the 1000th time, I'm sitting here today telling you to take the leap. I promise you it's worth it!"
You may be single, but does it sometimes feel like your sex-drive didn’t get the memo? In this video, we’re having an honest, shame-free conversation about how we should handle our sexuality as single women. We’re talking about where the line is, what’s okay and what’s not, if we should be waiting to have sex until marriage, and if so, what to do with our sex drive until then. Last (but certainly not least!) we’re going to have an honest talk about masturbation. Shame-free. Promise!
In this bonus video, you’ll meet my charming and hilarious friend Carly who’s explored the ins and outs of the online dating landscape (and has the BEST stories from her journey along the way). But Carly didn’t just walk away from online dating with great stories, she walked away with a husband! She met her husband using a dating app, and in this video she’ll tell us the whole story.
She’ll tell us about her reservations about online dating, why she decided to give it a try anyway, the inside scoop on dating apps versus websites, the philosophy about dating that really worked for her, and she’ll share her advice for you if online dating is something you’re thinking about too!
All it takes is one family gathering to want to wear a sign around your neck that says “don’t ask me about my dating life,” right?
In this video, we’re unpacking how to answer the “are you dating” question, how to have patience with parents through these conversations, how to protect our hearts in the midst of those questions, how to graciously answer with truth, and beyond.
As single women, one of the hardest things is when it feels like your friends are moving on—dating, getting married, having kids.
This bonus video will take you by the hand and walk you through nine perspective shifts that will help you maintain and strengthen the beautiful friendships you’ve cultivated as your best friends are going through seasons that look different from yours.
In this video, you’ll meet my amazing friend Brianna — a woman who lives a vibrant, joyful, adventurous, Christ-focused life. In this video she'll teach us...
✔️ How to make travel a priority (even if you have no one to go with!)
✔️ How to maintain amazing friendships even after your friends get married (you’ll never avoid being 3rd wheel again!)
✔️ We talk about waiting until you’re married to have sex (and the blessings that come from still waiting even when you’re waiting longer than you planned!)
✔️ And we talk about our biological clocks and why she trusts Jesus with her desire to have a family
What do you do when you have a heart for motherhood … but that’s not exactly something that’s in the cards right now?
In this video, you'll meet KayLynn — a dear friend of mine who shows us how sometimes God’s best plans for our lives don’t happen in the order we might have imagined, and how beautiful that can be. Motherhood isn’t out of reach for you. I can’t wait to share her story with you!
Have you ever asked these questions?
✔️ How do I put myself out there without coming on too strong or appearing desperate?
✔️ I keep getting my hopes up about relationships, and they keep not working out. How do I keep myself from getting crushed so often?
✔️ What does it look like to guard your heart in a relationship?
✔️ How do I figure out if this is the guy for me?
I promise you’re not the only one. My solution and answer to these questions? The Dating A-Z. I cannot wait to tell you all about it!
"I had the opportunity to take this course last year, and was too afraid. How I wish I hadn't been! I could have been feeling so much more confident and loved so much sooner!"
"This course introduced me to an entire community of women all over the country who are just like me! I have never encountered so many Christian women who are so supportive of each other."
"Going through this course has taken away so much shame surrounding my singleness. It has brought a freedom I didn't know I could experience."
when you sign up for LYSL
Extra Bonus: Heartbreak to First Date course. When you sign up for Love Your Single Life, you'll also get access to relationship coach, Kait Warman's online course, Heartbreak to First Date (Normally $250!)
Extra Bonus: Sexless in the City. When you sign up between August 30 - Sept 3, you'll also get a free copy of Kat Harris's new book, Sexless in the City! (Normally $20!)
Exclusive Community. The best part of this entire program is the community that comes with it. Connect with amazing likeminded women who are in your same stage of life!
Support from our incredible alumni coaches. You don't have to do it alone, We're here to answer as many questions as you have throughout your time in LYSL. We'll also be praying for you and cheering you on along the way!
A 102-page workbook, so you can journal through all the video lessons and reflection questions, keeping record of the things God's doing in your heart during this program.
Four modules full of easy to follow lessons featuring 17 video trainings and the step-by-step prompts and mindset shifts that have helped thousands of women.
A Daily Prayer because we know prayer changes things, often starting in our own hearts. When you don't have the words to pray over all this, you can fall back on this one-page printable over and over again.
The Resource Collection, with 22+ book recommendations, Bible studies, sermon/podcasts, and more to help you dig deeper on these topics.
Lifetime Membership to the Love Your Single Life program so you can revisit it anytime you need or want a refresher.
7 hours of bonus videos all about sex, friendship, pursuit, online dating, and more!
If you’re on the fence, I get it. It’s so hard to invest in ourselves, and if we’re going to make an investment, we want to know that it’s going to work! And so that’s why I offer my 30-day Love Your Single Life Promise.
Within 30-days, if you finish the course and feel like it wasn’t helpful, I will refund you 100%. That way you can sign up and take advantage of all of the possibilities available to you without any of the risk.
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Meet your mentor!
is an author, a podcaster, and the go-to guide for 20 & 30-something women as they navigate their most important relationships.
For almost a decade, Stephanie has passed on the wisdom she learned the hard way in her own love life — helping thousands of women thrive in their single and dating lives.
After taking her course and reading her books, women have gone on to adopt children, travel around the world, step further into their identity and calling, and marry incredible men.
Stephanie’s writing has been featured on NBC, the Anthropologie blog, and Relevant Magazine. She has also been a long-time blog contributor for CNBC’s Nightly Business Report, Darling Magazine, and the Christian Mingle blog.
When she’s not writing, speaking, or recording a podcast episode, Stephanie is usually packing for a global adventure with her husband Carl, laughing with her close tribe of girlfriends, or curled up in yoga pants in her Nashville home.
Stephanie May Wilson...
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Great question! I think online courses are still a bit of an unfamiliar thing. So let’s break down what it actually looks like to join us.
When you sign up for the course, you’ll create a username and password. That information allows you to log in to a private website where you can see the videos and workbook that make up the content of the course.
The course goes for four weeks, and on Monday of each of those four weeks, you’ll be able to see a new set of videos. They’re pre-recorded, so you don’t need to be a certain place at a certain time. You can watch them on your own time. If you fall behind in those four weeks, that’s totally fine. You can catch up whenever you like. The videos don’t expire. You’ll have access to them indefinitely. So you can take however long you want to go through them, and once you’re through them, you can always go back and watch them again.
So how it works is that you watch the video (they range in length. Some are 10 minutes, the bonus videos tend to be longer), and then once you’re done watching the video, you head to your workbook (which you’ll get when you sign up!) and you’ll answer some questions there.
That way you’re not just learning, you’re putting it into practice in your life!
The third component of the course is that you get access to a private Facebook group. That group is just for women who are going through the course, and it’s amazing because it’s this beautiful community where everyone’s in a similar stage of life all over the country, where they get to pray together, encourage each other, ask each other questions, and cheer each other on. That Facebook group is just so great because everyone gets to find out that they’re not alone in what they’re going through!
So the course really is a collection of videos, and a workbook for you to fill out, and a private Facebook group. You watch the videos, reflect on what you just learned and do some exercises in the workbook so you can actually put what you learned into practice. And you get to talk through it with a wonderfully supportive community in the Facebook group!
Again, I know that an online course is a new concept to lots of us. So I hope that makes it a bit easier to understand!
I’m so happy this topic resonates with you so much! It’s one of my very favorite things to talk to women about.
So, unfortunately I don’t offer discounts, or do any scholarships, and that’s for two reasons.
The first is that I’ve done everything I can to offer this course at a rock-bottom price. Comparable courses and programs are usually offered for upwards of 1,000 dollars! And so because I want as many of us to be able to participate as possible, I’ve tried to keep the cost super low.
The other reason I don’t do discounts or scholarships is because I’ve noticed that there’s such a strong correlation between what we put into something and what we get out of it. When we’ve invested our hard-earned money into something, we’re more likely to give it the best of our time and our effort. You really will get so much more out of this course because you have some skin in the game. It’s crazy how it works that way. But it’s really true!
But, that being said, if you're not able to join us this time around because of budget restrictions, I totally understand. I hope you can join us sometime in the future!
Great question! If you keep pace with us in the Facebook group, the course should take you about two hours per week for a total of four weeks.
But, while we’ll be keeping to this four-week timeline together in our Facebook group, know that you can absolutely take this course at your own pace. You’ll have lifetime access to the materials so you can start them whenever you want and take your time going through them.
And just in case you’re still thinking, “Steph, I’m in the midst of a super busy season. I just don’t think I have time to invest in this right now,” let me tell you a story about a med student who joined us last time we offered this course.
She knew she wanted to take the course but she was beyond busy. She just wasn’t sure it was the right time. We talked through it together and in the end, she decided to join us and here’s why.
She reasoned, “If I’m waiting until I’m done with med school to invest in my single and dating life, well, then I’m going to be waiting years. And then I’ll be starting a new job, and then, and then, and then. There will never be a time where this is convenient, and so I don’t want to wait! I don’t want to wake up years from now still feeling stuck in this area of my life. I want to start seeing breakthrough now, even if I do have to take the course at a slower pace.” I love that! It reminds me of one of my favorite quotes, “A year from now you will wish you had started today!”
But of course, that doesn’t change the fact that you’re really busy. If this is you, know that once you sign up for the course you will have access to the material for as long as the course exists (which we hope is years and years to come!).
So if you fall behind, or are traveling, or come across a busy season, that’s totally okay. You can go at your own pace. The content isn’t going anywhere. (And you can come back and re-watch the videos any time you need a refresher!)
That’s totally up to you! If you’re loving your single life, feeling totally confident in your dating life, and feel like you’re doing great on your own, that’s awesome! I love that!
But if you…
- Feel lonely, or confused, or stuck, or find this season to be really hard
- Wish you could enjoy this season, but all you can focus on is what you want but don't have right now
- Wish you could sit down with a friend who’s walked this road before and pick her brain about how she did it
- Wish you had some girlfriends who were also single who you could talk to about what you’re going through
- Wish you didn’t have to always learn things the hard way, and wish you had someone to guide you through
- You really have no idea what you’re doing when it comes to meeting guys or dating, or you’ve been trying things and they’re just not working
- You want to start living a life you really love as a woman you’re really proud to be…
Then this course has your name all over it. You can totally try to figure this stuff out on your own. But life is so much better when we do it together, right? You have this resource available to you. Why not use it?
I got an email a few days ago that I could totally resonate with. It was from a girl who said,
"Steph, I saw that you teach a course called Love Your Single Life, and I'm absolutely going to sign up. It's exactly what I've been needing. But I do have this one hesitation...
If I start really loving my single life, won't that make it last longer?
I mean, I don't necessarily WANT to be single, and so isn't embracing singleness sort of resigning myself to it? If I really hunker down, and start enjoying it, won't I get stuck there? And this might be a crazy question, but isn't it possible that if I start to be totally content without someone to share my life with, God might give my person to someone else?"
I totally resonated with her question because I worried the exact same thing. In a way, I felt like I had to be unwavering in my discontent of my single life so that I didn't somehow get stuck there. If singleness was a big comfy couch, I felt like I had to perch uncomfortably on the arm of it, afraid that if I let myself sink back into it and really enjoy myself, that I'd never get up!
But while that may happen on a comfy couch, that doesn't happen when it comes to singleness.
First of all, God doesn't hand out husbands based on who is most miserable being single. That's just not how it works. (Thankfully!) And second of all, loving your single life doesn't mean you'll stay in it forever.
In fact, loving your single life and really making the most of this season might help it go faster, it will at least help it feel like it.
Making the most of your single life means you're living your life to the full and becoming the very best version of yourself. And these are the exact things that will help you be in the right place at the right time to meet your person and be ready for a great relationship when the time comes.
Not only that, but have you ever heard that old adage, "A watched pot doesn't boil"? My mom used to say it to me all the time as I'd peer into the still water with the Kraft Mac & Cheese box in my hand.
The truth is, that water was going to boil whether I was watching it or not, but my mom was helping me see that it was going to FEEL like it took a lot longer if I just stood there and stared at it. Whereas if I busied myself doing something else, the time would feel like it passed much more quickly.
A watched pot will boil, and the next chapter of your life will start, but the time in between will feel so much faster (and more fun!) if you're making the most of it.
That’s a great question! The last thing I’d ever want you to do is to invest in something that’s not going to really be helpful and beneficial to your life.
So I’ll tell you two things:
First: The principles, ideas, and lessons I’m going to teach you in this course have been backed up and verified by tons of other experts in the different fields we’re diving into. Not only that, but I have personally used and benefited from each of these lessons, and it led to a single life I absolutely loved. And it’s done the same thing for my friends and my readers. In fact, we’ve had over 5,000 women take this course, and we get messages every day about how this course has helped them prepare for marriage, meet their husbands, meet their best friends, and start living the life they’ve always dreamed of.
Second: That being said, whether this works in your life is really up to you. You will get as much out of this course as you put into it. But I know that if you put your heart, your time, and your effort into this course and actually put these things into practice, your life will start to transform.
However, if you go through this entire course and feel that it wasn’t helpful, you can submit a refund request within 30 days of when you signed up. More than anything, I want this to be truly helpful for you!
Absolutely. More than anything, I want this to be helpful and beneficial to your life. And so if you make it through the course and feel like this wasn’t helpful, I would be more than happy to give you your money back (Not happy, because I’ll be sad that it wasn’t helpful… you know what I mean!)
But I do have three things I’ll ask you to do before I give you a refund:
- I ask that you complete the course first and submit all of your completed worksheets to us. I want you to really put your heart into the course, really give it a solid chance before you decide it didn’t work.
- I ask that you include a note to us explaining why the course wasn’t beneficial to you. We want to continue to make this course better, and so if it didn’t work, it’s important that we can understand why.
- We ask that you submit your refund request within 30 days of when you signed up for the course. Since the course is only a month long, we won’t be able to give refunds after those 30 days are up.
Great question! I don’t currently have plans for when I’ll open the course up again. So if you’re interested in taking the course, I’d sign up now just to make sure you’re able to!
That’s a great question!
First of all, I applaud you for not being on Facebook. I love seeing women make the decision that’s best for them when it comes to social media.
Second of all, unfortunately, the community aspect of the course really is going to require a Facebook account. And so if you don’t have one, you have a few options.
- Get back on Facebook just for the next month.
- Create a new Facebook account just for the course. That way you can be part of the discussion in our Facebook group, but you don’t have to deal with any of the other distractions of Facebook.
- Join us for the course without participating in the Facebook community. While you will miss out on the community aspect, you’ll still have access to all of the course content, and materials. So you’ll still be able to learn and apply everything in your life, you just won't be able to discuss it with the other women in the community. But that’s okay with me if it’s okay with you!
It's totally up to you. I'm in your corner either way!
This is actually one of the questions we’re asked the very most, and I totally get it.
I joined a small group not long ago, and my first question was, “Am I going to be the oldest person in it?” We want to fit in with the communities we join, and especially for a topic that seems to accumulate shame with each passing year, we want to know — is everyone going to be younger than me?
This course was designed for women in their 20’s to mid-30’s, and the women who have joined us for each round of the course have ranged in age from 19-38. But, those are just the ages we designed the course for. If you are in your 40s, 50s, or even 60s, and you want to join us, we’d love to have you!
The only age requirement we have is that you must be AT LEAST 18 years old to join us. If you’re 18 or older, we would love to have you!
Now, if you are feeling like you’re on the older end of the spectrum, you might be thinking, “Listen, the last thing I need is someone else making me feel old.” And it can also be really hard to hear people who are younger than you say things like, “I’m running out of time!”
But here’s what I will say — the amount of pressure we feel to get married, the depth of our desire to get married, and the amount of shame we sometimes feel for not being married doesn’t actually correlate with age as much as we think it does. I have met amazing 40-year-old women who aren’t feeling any pressure to get married, and I’ve met 20-year-olds who are being crushed by the pressure.
We all come from different backgrounds, different families, and different types of pressure for when and how these things are supposed to happen in our lives. And here’s why I love that: Because 1. We’re not alone. No matter how old you are, you’re not alone in feeling the things you’re feeling. And that’s what this community is here to show you. 2. We all bring different perspectives, and so we can each offer wisdom and encouragement that the other women in the course need.
So — all of that to say, as long as you’re over 18, you are welcome! We have a wide range of ages in the course, and so you probably won’t be the youngest, and you probably won’t be the oldest either.
But, my challenge for you would be to not let age stop you. No matter how old we are, so many of us struggle with the things we talk about in this course, and no matter how old we are, we don’t have to navigate them alone.
Absolutely not! Anyone is welcome! However, I will tell you that we do talk about Jesus, about prayer, and about the Bible throughout the course. So if that’s something you’re comfortable with, go ahead and join us! But if you’re looking for something that’s more faith-neutral, this might not be the best fit.
Nope. Sorry gentleman! This one is for girls only.
Yes! Absolutely! The women in the course are all over the map when it comes to past relationship history.
Each time, we have women join us who have been in lots of relationships, women who are fresh off of a breakup, women who have been married and recently divorced, and more.
You are so welcome in this community, friend!
Absolutely! We have tons of women join us for the course each time who have never been in a relationship. You're so welcome here, friend!
If you'd like to keep pace with the group, we'll be starting Module 1 on the Monday after you sign up for the course. Then the course will last for four more weeks. However, the course can be entirely self-paced and so if you’re out of town this week (or one of the weeks during the course), or if you fall behind, or are working with a crazy schedule, no worries at all! You’ll have access to the material indefinitely.
You’ll have access for as long as I offer the course! (So hopefully for years and years to come!)
This course is meant for individuals to go through on their own. However if you have friends who are also signing up, you could keep pace together and discuss what you learn at the end of each section!
Each login is meant to be for one person only. I kindly and humbly ask that you don’t share the content of this course — the videos, the worksheets, the information — with anyone who hasn’t themselves purchased the course.
Real talk for a second? My team and I pour so much time and energy into this course, and we love doing it! This is really so close to our hearts, so much of what we believe we’re meant to do in the world. And when copies are made, or login information is passed around (which is actually stealing) it really hurts our ability to continue.
If we find out that more than one person is using an account, we will revoke your access to the course. (We really don't want to have to do that!) So we thank you so much in advance for your consideration and respect!
This course is designed to be an encouraging resource and a step in a healthy, positive direction, but it is not a replacement for professional in-person mentorship, counseling, or therapy.
I am not a licensed therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or counselor. If you feel you are in need of help please reach out to a professional or call a help hotline in your area to help you through your time of need. If it feels urgent call your local law enforcement for immediate assistance.
I’m happy to answer any questions you can think of! Just send me an email! Hello@StephanieMayWilson.com.