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A marriage starter kit for couples in their first few years.
Married
You've been dreaming about this moment forever and it's finally here.
You met your person, you fell in love, you got married, you drove off into the sunset, and now you're newlyweds — setting up a brand new life together.
You're happy and grateful and excited for the future.
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes... real life.
But also...
Some aspects of marriage have been different than you expected
Some aspects of marriage have been different than you expected
You’re wondering, “Is this normal?” And also, “How do we fix this!?” Out of all the dreams you had for marriage, becoming a bickery old-married couple right out of the gate was not one of them.
You were so excited to share a home, but now that you are, who does what and how to do it is as clear as the dirty water in the cereal bowl that's STILL 'soaking' in the sink.
(Seriously, why do they load the dishwasher that way, and am I really the only one who can see that the trash is overflowing!?)
And you just didn't anticipate that it would be. You know something needs to change, but you have no idea how to change it (or even how to have the conversation without it being super awkward or hurting your partner's feelings!)
You’re not fighting or bickering but you’re also not feeling as loved or cherished or connected as you thought you would as a newlywed. The honeymoon phase isn't quite as romantic as people said it would be and your insecurities are running wild as a result.
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And you're not sure you're navigating them right...
You're trying to figure out family, money, work, schedules, responsibilities, friends, mental health, grocery shopping, dentist appointments and more — how to balance, manage, and share it all. It's real life and it's just HARD.
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Maybe you're bickering more than you imagined — or even full-on fighting
Maybe being roommates has been kinda tricky
Maybe sex has been a challenge
maybe you're feeling insecure (or even a bit lonely!)
Maybe life is just really challenging right now
Marriage is great, but you're not sure how to be a wife AND a sister, friend, employee, daughter, etc. etc. etc. AND be married all at the same time. Or maybe your marriage is suffering because of other relationships — you can't stop fighting about how much your mom comes over or how much time he wants to spend with friends.
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Maybe your other relationships are struggling
(all of these things are very normal, by the way!)
You've seen what marriage can turn into, after all. You know couples (maybe even in your own family) whose marriages have crashed and burned and taken their whole families down with them.
You also know couples who are still married, but who couldn't be more disconnected. They always seem to be complaining about each other, irritating each other, and arguing. They don't seem to enjoy each other anymore. They seem to have forgotten why they fell in love in the first place.
You know people who are deeply lonely in their marriages, couples who stopped trying years ago. They might as well just be roommates — the romance (and their friendship!) is totally gone.
Bottom Line: You just really want to do this well.
You do NOT want this to be your story
(You repeat: DO NOT!)
Are there things you can do to set your marriage up for success? Are there things you should be doing to keep your marriage from failing?
You're not sure why this happens in marriages and so you're not sure how to keep it from happening in yours.
If so, what are those things and how do you do them??
The problem is...
When we got engaged, we knew getting married would be a big life transition. But overnight it turned into the biggest transition of our lives.
Three months before our wedding, we were both laid off from our jobs. In an instant, our paychecks, our plans for our careers, our homes, our community, our mentors — all of it was ripped out from under us.
And so suddenly, we weren’t just combining our lives together, we were building a whole new life from scratch.
OUR STORY:
We had to make some massive decisions in rapid-succession, navigate some very real grief, look for new jobs, a new home, a new community, and do it all with very little money.
We knew all the things we had in common, but we quickly learned all the things we didn't have in common — how we handle grief or uncertainty or big decisions, for example.
It was a team-building challenge of mammoth proportions that we frankly didn't have the tools to navigate.
I think a lot of newlyweds find themselves in the same place. You just promised to share your entire life with another person — but you've never done this before (and even if you have!) you're like, "I have no idea what I'm doing!"
I was worried! More than anything, I didn't want to mess this up. I knew that a successful marriage wasn't a guarantee and that they also don't tend to just happen by accident.
But then, I had two coffees that changed our marriage.
The first was with my friend Hanna. Hanna had been married longer than us (and is just one of my wisest friends). We met up for coffee and once we had our lattes firmly in hand, she said, "So... how's marriage actually going?"
That day she showed me that I didn't have to do this alone and I didn't have to do it with a fake facade covering up the difficult parts. I could have someone on my team to help me do this massively important thing that I'd never done before.
I got to be so honest that day — to tell her about the things that were going well and the sticky spots we just couldn't seem to get through. Knowing that I could have people in my corner — REALLY in my corner — throughout my marriage changed everything.
And then a week later, on our first anniversary, we were invited over to coffee by the couple who did our pre-marital counseling.
To be honest, I didn't really picture coffee on their couch as the way Carl and I would spend half of our first anniversary. But as we sat back into their couch, lattes in hand, Chris asked us, "So... how's it really going, guys?" And we spent the next few hours talking about it — the good, the hard, the tricky, all of it.
You know what changes everything? Help. Marriage is WAY too important to just DIY — to throw at the wall and hope it sticks. But bringing in people with more perspective, insight, experience, and expertise to help you, walk you through it, keep you going, and keep you on the right path — it changes everything.
I know it did for us.
And that's why it's so wild to both me and Carl that there's such little help available to couples.
There's pre-marital counseling, but that's not available to all couples. And even if you do premarital counseling with people you LOVE (like we did), it's all theoretical. You don't know what your sticking points are going to be until you're in them. It's a lot like the baby-prep classes we did at the hospital before our twins were born. Sure, I can change a diaper on a teddy bear but the second there's an actual tiny person in my arms, I'm so overwhelmed, I can't remember a single bit of that training.
And then there's actual marriage counseling, which is FANTASTIC, but that's a hard thing to sign up for. How do you even find a counselor, how expensive is it going to be, and are you ready for that? Do you really need that? Marriage counseling sounds like the last stop on the train to divorce — and you'd really like to work on things before you get anywhere close to that.
Hanna and Chris and Amy changed our lives by showing us that we didn't have to do this alone. And so we haven't. We've had friends, mentors, professionals, therapists, experts, and our parents speak into our lives, guide us, help us, cheer us on, tell us when we're wrong, and more and more and more.
We have a fantastic marriage and I truly believe it's because we haven't done it on our own.
And so now — ten years into marriage — we want to turn around and be to other couples what Chris and Amy and Hanna have been for us — a sounding board, a safe place, and a guide — bringing perspective, insight, experience, and expertise to help you, walk you through this, keep you going, and keep you on the right path.
We want to help couples fill the potholes before they become canyons. Some wonderful couples did that for us and we're so honored to get to pay that forward.
Just Married
Introducing
In Just Married, we'll help you get on the same page in six of the trickiest (and most important!) areas of your marriage and life together.
In the course you'll learn what you need to do today to set yourselves up for the marriage, the family, and the life you both want in the future.
Very few couples stumble into a marriage and a life they love.
We'll help you build a path to get there.
"There were so many times I looked at my husband during the course and said, 'Every couple needs to take this!'
There are so many practical tips and concepts that I know will truly help us minimize (or even totally prevent!) issues in the future. Every single section was incredibly valuable, and we will take these lessons to heart for the rest of our lives."
Words from michelle
"This course is so worth your time. It's truly a priceless investment in your future.
The course helps bring you closer together, and helps you talk through things you might not normally bring up on your own. Not only that, but it’s such a comfortable, casual setting. You feel like you’re getting to have dinner with Carl and Stephanie every week. We positively loved it."
and claire
"Before we found this course, we felt stuck, alone, and desperate for help — this course changed everything!
It's not that Steph and Carl waved a magic wand and fixed it all for us — but they met us where we were at, shared their own experiences with us, pointed us towards invaluable resources and ultimately JESUS. And it made all the difference for us."
and kristin
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The course will help you talk through the areas of life that cause the most problems for married couples (especially in the early years!), and it'll help you start these conversations early — before they become massive issues.
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This course will help you...
Get on the same page now
The course will help you get on the same page about what you want your new life together to be like and make a plan for how you’re going to work together to make that life a reality.
Make a plan
While it functions like a course (full of practical, actionable information), this six-week course will feel more like a series of date nights — helping your love and connection and partnership grow.
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Most of our pre-marital education happens before we've identified our real trouble spots. And then a lot of us wait for true couples therapy until we're dealing with really big problems. But we're on a mission to bridge the gap. This course will help fill in some potholes together — before little problems turn into big ones.
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Fill in the potholes
Connect with each other
You'll learn:
✔️ What you need to do today to set yourself up for the marriage you want tomorrow
✔️ What happens when you don't intentionally lay this foundation for your marriage (and wing it, instead)
✔️ What healthy communication in marriage looks like and how to practically do it
✔️ How to have hard conversations without hurting each other
✔️ How to navigate conflict in a way that brings you closer instead of driving you apart
✔️ Three communication techniques that will eliminate half of your fights and resolve the other half much more quickly.
You'll learn:
✔️ How to figure out what you each need in order to feel loved and connected — and how to actually get the things you need
✔️ How to tell each other that you love them in a way you can both hear it
✔️ How to keep dating and pursuing each other (we'll help you make a date night plan!)
✔️ How to talk about sex without feeling awkward
✔️ What a healthy sex life in marriage actually looks like (and what to do if your sex drives are different!)
✔️ The super practical (but totally game-changing) things every couple needs to know about sex before they get too far into marriage
Let's make "Happily Ever After" just a little bit easier!
Learn to speak the same language
How to love each other well (and keep your love alive!)
Module one
Module two
You'll learn:
✔️ How to be a good roommate (this section will save you from SO many arguments and so much resentment!!)
✔️ Systems to put into place to make adulting as a couple so much easier and less stressful
✔️ What logistical things you need to put in place now in order to set yourself up for the future (and the family!) you want down the road.
✔️ Cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning, and more — how to divide responsibilities in a way that works for both of you.
✔️ How to create a home you both feel comfortable, safe, and happy in
How to be better roommates & share life logistics as a team
module four
The healthier you are as individuals, the healthier your marriage will be — so in this module, we're talking about how to get each of you what you need in order to be your best selves.
We're going to be talking about:
✔️ Sleep
✔️ Your home and your space
✔️ Down time
✔️ Space and time to pursue hobbies
✔️ Mental and physical health
✔️ Community and support system
✔️ And more!
How to make sure you each have what you need in life
module Three
Here's what you'll learn in this six week program...
You'll learn:
✔️ How to talk about your individual hopes and dreams for a future family with each other
✔️ How to decide together what you want to do (and the timing of when to start!)
✔️ How to know if you're ready to have kids (and what you can do to get ready!)
✔️ Next steps to take when you decide you are ready
✔️ Tools to handle frustration and disappointment if your plans don't go the way you hoped they would.
✔️ How to get on the same page about what life will look like once your kids arrive — who will take care of them, how do you want to raise them, and more.
Kids are a great place to start, but they aren't your only goal or dream for your future together.
In week six we shift our focus further into the future. We'll discuss how to dream together, make future plans, and then actually take the steps to pursue what you want in your career, finances, impact or philanthropy, travel, and more!
The kids conversation
How to dream together, make future plans, and then actually take the steps to pursue them.
Module Five
Module six
Imagine what could happen if people invested even a fraction of that time and energy into their marriages!
On average, couples spend $20,000 and 250 hours planning their wedding.
$297
PAY IN FULL
Most Economical Plan
$50
6 monthly payments
Most Adaptable Plan
You can enroll with one easy payment
OR, easy monthly payments to spread out the investment.
*when you sign up, both you and your significant other get access!
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after
THE COURSE IS DESIGNED TO BE
Like a pre-marital counseling do-over for your wedding
(when you could actually use some help — but before you really REALLY need help!)
The course covered so many important topics and helped us have some incredibly meaningful conversations. Our communication is so much better than it was before, and that’s made our relationship even stronger."
— julius
"We are truly so much more connected to each other because we took this course.
Bonus Videos
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Money is stressful for everybody, but it's especially hard on newlyweds. You have your own money and now suddenly what's yours is theirs and what's theirs is yours and you have to figure out how to spend (and NOT spend) it all together. Yikes. In this bonus video we're going to share with you what this has looked like for us and the 5 things we wish we could go back and tell ourselves at the beginning.
Money, money, money
Bonus one
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In this bonus video you'll learn how to bond with your new family, set appropriate boundaries, and plan the holidays now that you’re together (without ruining everyone's family traditions).
How to Deal with Difficult In-Laws
Bonus two
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For years, many of us have been taught that it's IMPERATIVE that we're both equally strong in our faith. But what happens if we're not, or if we express our faith differently, or if one (or both) of our beliefs change along the way? That's what we'll talk about in this bonus video — now to navigate both faith and doubt together.
Unequally yoked?
Bonus three
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Whether you're choosing between apartments, considering buying a house, or wondering if it's time to leave (or come back to!) the place where you grew up — the question of "Where should we live?" is such a hard one to answer. In this bonus video, we'll teach you the decision-making process we've used for almost a decade that has led to some of the best decisions of our lives!
Where should we live?
bonus four
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In this bonus video, you'll learn:
✔️ How to stay close to your friends now that you're married. (How to make this transition with your community instead of away from your community.)
✔️ Couple friends: Why you need them and how to meet them
✔️ How to balance time with friends, time with family, and time with just the two of you (without hurting everybody’s feelings)
✔️ And why friendship is one of the best gifts you can each give your marriage.
How to navigate friendship now that you're married
Bonus five
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In this bonus video, we're talking about what it looks like to have two big dreams in one marriage. We'll talk about how to get on the same page about your career goals, how to support each other, how to make time and space for the things you're each meant to do in the world, when to prioritize one over the other, how to avoid pitfalls like comparison or jealousy, and more.
How to support each other's career goals
bonus six
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As a couple, do you need to be on the same page about your political beliefs? And what do you do if you're not? In this bonus video, we'll talk about how to keep political tension from causing problems in your marriage.
How to navigate politics in your marriage.
Bonus seven
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You're not alone in this, and you don't have to figure this out alone! In this audio interview, you'll learn what to do to find healing, and freedom, and redemption in this area of your life and marriage.
What to do if you or your spouse struggles with porn
bonus eight
Every couple needs to know these things!
SOO good!!
+ two additional bonus videos from notable sex experts,
Dr. Celeste holbrook and Sheila Wray Gregoire
My fiancé and I have always been very intentional with how we've gone about things and this was a perfect guide to help us navigate moving into this next season with that same intentionality."
— jess
"We were feeling pretty lost when we first got engaged, but now we feel more equipped than ever to start our adventure together.
Tools and resources that have made our lives (and all the details we're trying to keep straight) SO much simpler and easier to navigate TOGETHER. We've tested a MILLION options to get to these six and we can't wait to share with you what we've found that works best to keep it all straight.
Our Six Sanity-Saving Family Systems
tried & true
Six Sanity- Saving Systems
Bonus!
6 mentorship video sessions (6+ hours of practical guidance, and mentorship with Stephanie and Carl)
Lifetime access to the recordings of these video sessions. That way you can watch them whenever is most convenient for you and rewatch whenever you need a refresher
A 100-page workbook. Many of the lessons have their own exercises, and this printable workbook creates space for you to really dig into the curriculum, as well as take notes and keep a record of all the things you're learning, and all the plans you're making together
When you sign up for the course, you'll get lifetime access to...
join the waitlist
You'll get to see (and add your name to!) our Community Directory. That way you’ll be able to see everyone who's taking the course, see all the things you have in common, find people who live in your same town, and connect with each other in real life! (This is a GREAT way to make new friends!!)
Access to our suite of 10+ bonus videos
Access to our Sanity Saving Systems — a list of the tools, services, and subscriptions Stephanie and Carl use in their own life and family (along with discount codes for almost all of them!) Our go-to budgeting app, how we did our will, where we keep our important documents, how we manage our passwords, and more.
If you’re on the fence, we totally understand. Life is SO expensive these days, and you don't want to spend a single dollar on something that isn't absolutely worth it. (After all, that wedding was NOT cheap. 🫠)
And so that’s why we offer our our 100% money back guarantee.
After fully completing the six weeks, if you feel like the program wasn't helpful, we will refund you 100%. That way you can sign up and take advantage of all of the possibilities available to you without any of the risk.
Love it, or get your money back
Read our full Terms & Conditions here!
We laughed, [I] cried, if you're on the fence, don't wait. You'll wish you'd done it sooner!
“I loved working through the workbook answers together. We laughed, [I] cried — the prompts helped bring to light our values and preferences on big, important topics in greater depth than what we had discussed at that point. If you're on the fence, don't wait. You'll wish you'd done it sooner!"
Words from corianne
"I feel 1000% more confident in our life and relationship together. This is a 5-star course for SURE!"
"I feel 1000% more confident in our life and relationship together! I know that we will face many trials and hard times in life but now I feel like we know how to do it TOGETHER. This is a 5-star course for SURE."
and shelby
"There's so much practical insight in here, you will not be sorry you spent the money!"
“We took this course while we were engaged, and it made all the different. I feel more prepared for wedding planning, dealing with family, sex, becoming roommates. Take this course!! There is so much practical insight in here, you will not be sorry you spent the money!”
and allison
Meet your mentors!
Stephanie May Wilson is an author, a podcaster, and the go-to guide for 20 & 30-something women as they navigate their most important relationships.
Over the last ten years, Stephanie has had the honor of mentoring more than a million women through her books, her courses, and her chart-topping podcast, Girls Night.
After taking her courses and reading her books, women have gone on to adopt children, travel around the world, step further into their identity and calling, and marry incredible men.
Stephanie’s writing has been featured on NBC, the Anthropologie blog, and Relevant Magazine. She has also been a long-time blog contributor for CNBC’s Nightly Business Report, Darling Magazine, and the Christian Mingle blog.
When she’s not writing, speaking, or recording a podcast episode, Stephanie is usually packing for a global adventure with her husband Carl, laughing with her close tribe of girlfriends, or living out her dream of moving to Spain with her twins Annie and Quinn.
Stephanie May Wilson
Meet your mentors!
Carl Wilson is a design thinking expert who helps individuals, brands, and organizations create beautiful things that make a difference in the world.
He coaches his clients on how to shape their company culture with intentionality and purpose, and that’s how he approaches relationships as well.
Carl believes marriage is the most meaningful, challenging, and profoundly shaping relationship we have in life and is passionate about helping couples discover their relationship roots and intentionally build their family culture.
He’s been doing this, both publicly and behind the scenes, with Stephanie for years, and he’s excited to partner with Stephanie in teaching this course.
Outside of work, you can find him on the golf course, coaching lacrosse, or going on adventures with Stephanie and their twin toddlers, Annie and Quinn.
Carl Wilson
Meet carl
"This is the practical and down-to-earth marriage intro that you are looking for. It's also an excellent opportunity to have some intimate time with your partner!”
words from catherine
The "unknowns" of marriage feel less scary after taking this course. I believe that my partner and I now have the tools we need to tackle any issue in the future.
and dan
“This course is SO worth it! We are in a MUCH better place than we were when we started the course. It was so helpful!!"
and chris
We have answers!
Have questions?
Great question! So many of us are new to the world of online courses (and they can feel a bit confusing at times!), so let’s break down what it actually looks like to join us.
The course is made up of three main parts:
1. Six Video Sessions
Each week, we'll send you an email with a brand new video to watch. You can watch (and re-watch!) the videos whenever works best for you. Our hope is that our time together in the videos feels more like six dinner dates than a class! We hope you will order in, or make dinner ahead of time, and curl up on the couch together to join us.
Carl and I have so much to teach and share with you (including so many personal stories of our own — things we did well, and things we would definitely go back and do differently if we could!)
You'll have access to those video replays indefinitely (for as long as the course exists, which we're hoping is for years and years to come!) which means you can go back and re-watch videos whenever you need a refresher, a reminder, or just a pep talk!
Whenever you do watch the videos, we do recommend that you reserve an additional hour each week for the next part of the course...
2. The workbook
Along with one video per week, we'll also send you workbook pages to go along with the video. It will either be a short activity or a series of questions to answer together, but this is where the good stuff happens.
This is the moment when you take what you learned from the video and put it into practice in your own relationship. This will be a time of opening up, of vulnerability, of getting to know each other on a deeper, more meaningful level, of falling more in love. This is the time when you ask big important questions and really take the time to listen to each other's answers.
This is where you start to get on the same page about what you want your life together to look like and when you make a plan for how you're actually going to make that a reality.
Then, last but not least, there's...
3. The 1-on-1 call with Steph and Carl
Everyone who signs up for the course will have an opportunity to have a 30-minute one-on-one call with either Stephanie or Carl. (You can also opt in for an hour-long 2-on-2 if you want to have your call together!). This was our favorite part of teaching the course last time. We can't wait to get to know you better!
So, that's the course! If you have any additional questions about the structure of the course or how it will work, please do not hesitate to reach out! We're always here to help! (Hello@StephanieMayWilson.com)
Great question! We've designed the course for couples who have gotten married in the last few years. But if you're seriously dating, engaged, or have been married for longer, you're also totally welcome to join us. If the course sounds like it would be helpful for you, we'd love to have you!
Nope! Not at all. Currently, Carl and I are living in Spain (so we're on a totally different time-zone from most of our community!) and we're NOT trying to make us all crazy by trying to find a time that works for everybody. That's why we're going to be pre-recording the videos and we'll have them uploaded onto our private course website (you'll get access to that as soon as you sign up for the course!). That way you can watch the video at the time that works best for you!
You'll receive the first module of content on October 21st, and the last module of content on the 25th of November (We'll finish just in time for Thanksgiving!)
This course is for couples! So men and women are both invited. The course will be taught by Carl and Stephanie Wilson, and it's designed for you to watch together!
I totally hear you. The thought of spending an extra dollar on anything right now is truly hard to stomach.
(We lost four jobs between the two of us before our first anniversary — we know how tight money can be.)
But even so, we don't offer any scholarships or discounts (other than if you sign up in the first 24 hours!). That's for two reasons:
The first is that we've done everything we can to offer this course at a rock-bottom price. Comparable programs, retreats, and mentorships are usually offered for upwards of 1,000 dollars! (Especially when you factor in travel and lodging and meals and more). And so because we want as many couples to be able to participate as possible, we’ve tried to keep the cost as low as possible.
The other reason we don’t do discounts or scholarships is because we know there’s such a strong correlation between what we put into something and what we get out of it. When we’ve invested our hard-earned money into something, we’re more likely to give it the best of our time and our effort. You really will get so much more out of this course because you have some skin in the game. It’s crazy how it works that way. But it’s really true!
But still, we know how tight our budgets can be, and so that's why we created a special 12-month payment plan. We're hoping that makes it possible for you to join us!
When you pictured your first few years of marriage, you pictured romance, right? But the truth is, romance can be a bit hard to come by during this season of life. You're going through an enormous transition, you're still responsible for every part of your normal life, but now you're trying to figure out how to do them together. It's a lot — and not always romantic.
But we’re here to help. Our hope is that instead of watching these videos individually, that you'd carve out an evening and watch them together.
Make dinner, light a candle, curl up on the couch together and join the call! We'll walk through a section together and then give you plenty of time to discuss, dream, pray, and work through a series of questions or an activity once we're finished.
This is going to work like a course (in that you'll walk away with a ton of practical, actionable information and next steps), but it'll feel much more like a date night!
You'll finish the course having had six wonderful, intimate, connective date nights with each other.
Great question! If you keep pace with us, the course should take about two hours per week for six weeks in a row. We recommend devoting one evening to it — watching it during dinner and then instead of curling up with Netflix, curling up with your course workbook and talking through the questions together.
We know it is so hard to find time for anything extra — especially during busy seasons of life.
We also know that the work you put into your relationship on the front-end through this course will pay off and truly save you so much time later down the road.
Because you talked through so many of these things, got on the same page, made a plan, and did it now – you will truly spend so much less time feeling frustrated with each other, and honestly, fighting about these things from now on.
(We say this from experience. Face-palm)
But of course, that doesn’t change the fact that you’re really busy. If this is you, know that once you sign up for the course you will have access to the material for as long as the course exists (which we hope is years and years to come!).
So if you need to wait a few weeks to start watching the videos, or even wait a few months until summer or another time that's a bit more open for you, or if you need to spread them out so you do one every few weeks instead of one per week, you can absolutely do that. You can go at your own pace. The content isn't going anywhere. (And you can come back and re-watch the videos any time you need a refresher!)
Once you sign up for the course, you'll have access to all of the material for as long as the course exists, which we hope is for years and years to come!
The truth is, we're not sure! We may be offering the course one more time this year, but also, this may be the only time we ever teach it. There is also the chance that if we do teach it another time, the price will increase by then.
So if you are interested in the course, we do recommend signing up now. Even if you have to wait and hold onto the content for a while before you're able to fully dive in.
That’s a great question! The last thing we'd ever want you to do is to invest in something that’s not going to really be helpful and beneficial to your life.
So we'll tell you two things:
First: The principles, ideas, and lessons we're going to teach you in this course have been backed up and verified by tons of other experts in the different fields we’re diving into. Not only that, but we have personally used and benefited from each of the things we're going to teach you in this course. We have been the personal guinea pigs for every single thing we're about to share with you, and these things have truly made an enormous difference in our lives and our marriage. (So many of our friends and mentors have experienced the same things!)
Second: That being said, whether this works in your life is really up to you. You will get as much out of this course as you put into it. But I know that if you put your heart, your time, and your effort into this course and actually put these things into practice, it will make a huge difference in your relationship.
However, if you go through this entire course and feel that it wasn’t helpful, let us know and we will refund you 100%. More than anything, we want this to be truly helpful for you!
Absolutely. More than anything, we want this to be helpful and beneficial to your life. And so if you make it through the course and feel like this wasn’t helpful, we would be more than happy to give you your money back (Not happy, because we'll be sad that it wasn’t helpful… you know what we mean!)
But we do have three things we’ll ask you to do before we give you a refund:
- We ask that you complete the course first and submit all of your completed worksheets to us. We want you to really put your heart into the course, really give it a solid chance before you decide it didn’t work.
- We ask that you include a note to us explaining why the course wasn’t beneficial to you. We want to continue to make this course better, and so if it didn’t work, it’s important that we can understand why.
- We ask that you submit your refund request within 45 days of when you signed up for the course. Since the course is only six weeks long, we won’t be able to give refunds after those 45 days are up.
Absolutely not! Anyone is welcome! Full-disclosure, we do both come from a Christian faith tradition, so there will likely be mentions of prayer, the Bible, and Jesus during our teachings. BUT, we do strongly believe that the things we're sharing are applicable to all couples — no matter your faith tradition.
This course is designed to be an encouraging resource and a step in a healthy, positive direction, but it is not a replacement for professional in-person mentorship, counseling, or therapy.
We are not licensed therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, or counselors.
But we are HUGE fans of people who are.
Our hope is that this course is a great supplement to marriage counseling. There are things you'll be able to talk about in counseling that we won't cover here, or won't be able to cover as personally. But also, there are things we'll share and teach that you may not go over in marriage counseling.
Our hope is that they can work in tandem instead of you feeling like you should choose one or the other.
We totally understand! We want this to be something you are both excited about and both willing to do. (A marriage course isn't super helpful when it's just one-sided!).
So our hope is that you are able to find something you both feel good about. And if this is not that thing, that's totally okay!
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The first was with my friend Hanna. Hanna had been married longer than us (and is just one of my wisest friends). We met up for coffee and once we had our lattes firmly in hand, she said, "So... how's marriage actually going?"
That day she showed me that I didn't have to do this alone and I didn't have to do it with a fake facade covering up the difficult parts. I could have someone on my team to help me do this massively important thing that I'd never done before.
I got to be so honest that day — to tell her about the things that were going well and the sticky spots we just couldn't seem to get through. Knowing that I could have people in my corner — REALLY in my corner — throughout my marriage changed everything.
And then a week later, on our first anniversary, we were invited over to coffee by the couple who did our pre-marital counseling.
We have you covered, friend! Just send us an email at Hello@StephanieMayWilson.com. 🙂
