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Facing a big decision or life transition?

You're in the right place! I'm Stephanie May Wilson and through my books, courses, and podcast, I help women take off the pressure of what they think their lives are supposed to look like by now — and then intentionally, confidently, and authentically build the life they actually want to live.

(No wonder we're all so stressed!)

Welcome to the decade-ish where your whole life gets decided.

It’s this weird, wonderful, and wildly difficult span of years during which you’ll make the most biographically significant decisions of your life—all at the same time.

Who you are, what you want to do with your life, where you’ll call home, who your people are, which person you’ll share your life with, and whether you’ll have kids—there's major pressure (internal, external, and even biological) to decide the major plot points of our lives, all within just a few short years.

Did you know that 80% of our life's most defining moments happen between our 25th and 35th birthdays? 

Is this you too?

Tell me if this sounds familiar

Maybe you’re about to have a big birthday and you’re not where you thought you’d be by this point in your life

Maybe you’re making a massive decision — you’re swimming in lists of pros and cons and still don’t know what to do

Maybe you know exactly what you want in life but you don’t know how to get it

maybe you have no clue what you want, but you know you don’t want what you’re “supposed to want” and the conflict raging inside you as a result is positively consuming

Or maybe you're juggling several dreams and aren't sure how to fit them together...

The stakes are high. The things you do (and don’t do!) during this time can have ripple effects across years and even generations, and you do not want to look back and have regrets.

You’re trying to cram so much into so little time.

You're wondering how (and if!) everything will all fit together.

"If I get married by this age, then I'll only have this many years before I need to start trying to get pregnant. But I need to get to this place in my career before all of that..." 

For women, this season of life can feel like a big game of Tetris — 

with your hopes, dreams, body, finances, and most important relationships. 🤦🏼‍♀️

This season of life is only made harder by the fact that there’s (still!) this cultural insistence that there’s something wrong with you if your life doesn’t look a certain way by a certain time—a pressure that crescendos for women in this defining decade-ish.

Everyone and their mom (but especially YOUR mom) has an opinion about what you should be doing with your life... 

Which makes it extra hard to figure out what you actually want.

And then there's the peanut gallery.

You could spend so much time trapped in worry and comparison, you miss your life altogether (or at least, this season of it!)

You could spend years building someone else's dream life instead of your own

You could spend so much time stuck between two options that you miss out on both of them

Time, other people, and circumstances will make the decisions for you

If you don't...

You do need to figure out what you want in life.






really, you get to decide!
but I know that can be so overwhelming, which is why...



You get to decide what


your life accordingly.

I'm here to help.

I've spent the last 10 years building a life I love and now I'm on a mission to help other women do the same!

Through my podcast, books, and online courses, I’m so honored to be a go-to guide for women in their twenties and thirties as they navigate this life season’s biggest decisions and transitions: being single and navigating relationships, getting engaged and then married, pursuing a career, moving to a new city, and (this is the enormous transition I’ve been going through lately!) becoming a mom.

I’m on a mission to be the person I needed when I was younger: a guide, a sounding board, and a friend who’s both been where you are and gotten to where you want to go.

I’ve walked hundreds of thousands of women through the most high-stakes, high-pressure era of their lives, and I’m here to help you too.

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7-million women

“Stephanie's resources have walked with me through job transitions, my engagement, marriage, pregnancy loss, and the birth of my girls!  I’m so grateful for her wisdom!”

— Courtney

"Because of Stephanie's course, I went to therapy, invested in my friendships, moved abroad, and got my masters degree! Transformative!"

— Johanna

"Last year was the best year of my life as far as finding purpose and living fully and I credit so much of that to Stephanie. I mean it! Thank you."

— Melissa

But do you know what? I love how it turned out.  

I'm walking out of this defining decade-ish having built a marriage, a family, a community, a career, and a life that I truly love. 

Want to hear more of my story? I'd love for you to meet my people, hear about some of the decisions I've made along the way, and see how I've put the pieces of my life together. 

(Hint: It involves twin toddlers, owning two companies, being married to the wisest and funniest guy I know, and lots of big moves!) 

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Want to see how I've put the pieces of my life together?

My story!

Piece by piece, decision by decision, I've created a life that I'm excited about, a life I'm proud of, a life that looks and feels like me. 

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Each week on Girls Night, I invite one of the smartest women I know to chat about the topics that keep us up at night. We’re going to lean on the collective wisdom of women — learning from their insight and experience so that you not only know what your next step is, but you also have the support to actually take it. 

Get your comfy pants on, and let’s get started. 

Navigating big decisions & life transitions one Girls Night at a time

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These are practical resources where I can help make your life better, easier, and more beautiful. There's a whole list of things where I'm your girl. I know this path, I know it well, and I would be SO honored to walk you through this. These are ways I can help make your life better, easier, and more fun.  

Books, courses, journals, and guides walking you through big decisions and transitions as you create a life you LOVE!

Steph's Guides

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There's a whole other category of things where I'm definitely NOT the expert. So I've found someone who is. On this page, you'll find a curated collection of resources that help me create a life I love. (And I have discounts & promo codes to share for most of them!)

These are things that make my life better, easier, and more beautiful, and I know they'll do the same for you!

These are things that make my life better, easier, and more beautiful.

Steph's Go-Tos

This is my girl!

The ten questions in this downloadable workbook have guided me through the trickiest and most important decisions of my life — with everything from marriage, to kids, to my career, to where I call home. I can't wait to share them with you!

Decision workbook

If you’ve just moved, or your friend group is changing, or if your people are stepping into different seasons of life, or if you’ve just never had the best friends you’ve wanted …⁠ ⁠this ebook is for you! ⁠

10 intimidation-free steps

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The Between Places

Guided Journal

Every Single Moment

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Love Your Single Life

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Into the Unknown

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Are you Ready to Meet Your Person?

Relationship prep 


The Lipstick Gospel

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How to Talk to Guys eBook

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A 10-day devotional for seasons of uncertainty

A workbook to prepare your heart for the day your love story starts.

"This book will make you want to hug your girlfriends, travel the world, dance with a bull-fighter, and love the God she loves."

How to relax, let your personality shine, and actually have fun while dating.

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