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How to Talk to Guys

Whether you’re in the coffee line at church, you’ve just downloaded the latest dating app, or you’re about to go on a first date—talking to guys is hard and totally daunting... unless you have a plan.

How to Talk to Guys is a script of conversation-starting questions that will make all of your dating scenarios so much easier.

- Maybe you met your dream guy at church, and you’re looking for any excuse to talk with him.

- Or, maybe you finally bit the bullet and downloaded that dating app—you even connected with someone you may be interested in.

- Or, maybe your best friend set you up with her cousin and you just introduced yourself over text.

- Or, maybe you’re about to go on a first date with a guy you just met.

No matter which situation you find yourself in, you’re starting something new with someone new. You’re excited and nervous as you introduce yourself—things seem to be going pretty well!

But then you hit a wall.

Dating is HARD.

Let's be honest...

The small talk is over, so what are you supposed to say next?

Somehow (and you're not sure how!)...

... you're supposed to calm your nerves enough to carry on a conversation that will tell you all of the information you need to know...

Is he a good fit for you? Do you have things in common? Is his faith as important to him as yours is to you? Is there a future for you together?

Oh, and you're also trying to be funny, smart, and attractive—all at the same time (often, via text!).

Check, please!

If this is enough to make you want to throw in the towel, you are SO not alone!

And that's what I have for you today!

This is hard and totally daunting... unless you have a plan.

In this pocket-sized dating guide, you'll find a script of conversation-starting questions that will make your dating life so much easier. (No more small talk and sweaty palms!)

It'll help you feel more prepared and less nervous as you talk to a guy you like. It'll help you stand out from the crowd as you chat online, and it'll help the conversations flow on those first few dates. More than anything, it'll help you relax, let your personality shine, and actually have fun.

How to Talk to Guys

Introducing...

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"This guide has been a total game-changer for me!"

“This guide has been a total game-changer for me. I have a first date coming up this weekend, and I'm not even nervous! I feel ready, excited, and confident!"

Words from caroline

"It gave me confidence!"

This guide is amazing. I love how it broke down questions to spark conversation but also really gave me the tools to see if a relationship was right for me. It gave me confidence!

And Rachel

Know what to say to the guy you like—whether you’re talking on the phone, online, or on a date in person.

Feel more comfortable and confident (and avoid those awkward silences!).

Get to know the guy you're talking to on a deeper level. (Do you have things in common? Could you have a future together? These questions will help you figure that out!).

Talk about your faith (and ask about his) without feeling weird or putting him on the spot.

Relax, open up, and let your personality shine!

And more!

This guide will help you...

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"This book changed the way I approach my social life."

“This book changed the way I approach my social life. Before, I would try to avoid certain places due to my shyness and inability to talk to guys, but now I actively seek out chances to meet and get to know new people. Take it from me. READ IT!”

Words from Kristin

"This guide is one of the most helpful dating resources I've ever found!"

“For anyone looking to know how to be on a date or even how to approach someone to go on the first date, this guide is for you!! It's one of the most helpful dating resources I've ever found. I fully believe this guide will help build the confidence you need to move forward in the dating realm.”

and erin

"This guide was so helpful! It reduced my anxiety when it comes to dating!"

"This guide was so helpful! The topics you discussed were great and it helped reduce my anxiety when it comes to dating. It can be awkward and uncomfortable at times and knowing that I have ways to help alleviate the awkwardness for not only myself, but whoever I’m on a date with makes me feel so much more relaxed."

and Hannah

No more small talk and sweaty palms!

How to Talk to Guys

A pocket-sized conversation guide that will make your dating life so much easier!

“I literally went on a date right after I finished reading this book. The guide definitely helped me feel more prepared just in case my mind went blank or I didn't know how to follow up with a question and keep the conversation going. The guide helped me feel so much more confident in myself!

Let's just say we ended up talking for HOURS and before I knew it the bar was closing in 30 minutes and it was way past my regular weekday bedtime.

P.S. I'm writing this the morning after and I literally just got a sweet text from him about how he had a great time last night :)”

— vanessa

"We ended up talking for HOURS!"

"This book Helps you be yourself — instead of sounding like you're on a job interview!"

"Helped so much with my dating anxiety!"

"This book gives you confidence!"

“I've recommended this guide to so many of my friends – it literally gives you word-for-word examples that are easy to personalize and apply in everyday conversation!”

words from mia

“This guide really helped me think differently about the kind of conversations I could have on a date. I feel more confident now and am excited to get to know people in a deeper and fun way with these questions.”

and tori

Over the last ten years, Stephanie has had the honor of mentoring more than a million women through her books, her courses, and her chart-topping podcast, Girls Night.

After taking her courses and reading her books, women have gone on to adopt children, travel around the world, step further into who they were meant to be and what they were meant to do in the world — and marry incredible men.

When she’s not writing, speaking, or recording a podcast episode, Stephanie is usually packing for a global adventure with her husband Carl, laughing with her close tribe of girlfriends, or curled up in her Nashville home with her twins, Annie and Quinn.